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Everyone has a survival pattern. It is the way you learned to stay safe and succeed, and it helped get you where you are. Under pressure it runs on its own, before you have time to think. The iEQ9 is a rigorously validated assessment built on the Enneagram. It points toward your pattern: where your instincts are serving you and where they are quietly costing you at home.
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Once your results are in, we meet for an hour. We go through what the assessment found, and I ask about the rest: what is happening in your relationship and what you have already tried. The assessment gives me your pattern. The conversation gives me the rest.
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Then I build your road map. It is a short document, written for you, that lays out a weekly rhythm of conversations and practices, with tools matched to your pattern. All of it is built to increase connection. None of it takes hours out of your week.
Some men take the road map and run with it. Others want a coach in their corner while the new way of operating takes hold. If that is you, we will talk about what ongoing coaching looks like.
For couples who do not want to wait, the Couples Intensive is the deeper version of this work.